Velma Jean Stroud, whose life was defined by unfailing faith, deep devotion to her husband, Jack, and enduring love for her family, passed away leaving behind a legacy of care for her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.
Born on Aug. 29, 1934, in Frontenac, Kansas, Velma was the younger of two siblings. A proud and active Frontenac High School Raider, she immersed herself in school life participating in plays, numerous clubs, instrumental recitals, and homecoming courts. Her Raider pride stayed with her for decades, as she loved attending high school reunions well into her late seventies.
Following graduation, Velma went to work as the only woman on one of the Kansas Army Ammunition Plant’s most productive teams in Parsons, Kansas. She later attended Pittsburg State University, where she earned her Cosmetology license.
On March 10, 1957, Velma married the love of her life, Jack, beginning a beautiful partnership that spanned seventy years. Wherever life took Jack, Velma was right by his side, in boats, on jet skis, ATVs, and planes, or in football press boxes.
When Jack faced multiple bouts with cancer starting in 1985, Velma stepped back into the workforce to help cover his medical costs, working first as a lunchroom supervisor and later as the Nursery Director at Westlink Christian Church. During Jack’s final illness in his last year, her devotion never wavered; every single day she went to "see my man."
In retirement, Velma carried on a family tradition passed down by her mother and grandmother, becoming a master quilter. She created true works of art for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren — and even managed the impressive feat of convincing Jack to sit still long enough to learn to quilt with her.
As a mother, Velma was far more than a spectator in her children’s lives. She was fully invested in everything they did, serving as a Girl Scout Troop leader, room mother, team driver, baker, and fundraiser.
Above all, Velma was the moral compass and voice of reason for her family. Her Christian faith was deep and studious. Her Bible and daily devotionals — always kept within reach by her bed and chair — were carefully underlined, marked, and noted. When her family needed wisdom, she never hesitated to offer a scriptural verse if she knew it would guide the way. Even in her final days her signature wit was evident with a nod, wink or finger point.
Velma is survived by her loving children: Jeannie (Greg), Jeanette (Terry), and Jeff (Leticia); as well as nine grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.
Memorial service will be held at Pathway Church on Thursday, Aug. 20, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. A memorial has been established with: Family Promise of Greater Wichita, 1111 North St. Francis, Wichita, Kansas 67214
Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary.
